Girl, here are three reasons why you don’t need a man

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I am at that stage in life where all the women around me seem dead-set on finding men. Everyone is angling to find a man to settle down with and I am just over here wondering what the hell for.

Maybe my outlook has been tainted by too many disappointments by the menfolk but, the way I see it, you don’t need a man. There is literally nothing you can’t do without a man! In fact, nowadays I see men as liabilities.

I am perfectly happy and content with my life as it is. I have never needed a man to be happy. Here are three reasons why you don’t need a man.

You can please yourself

The most compelling reason women give for wanting to be in a relationship is because they need the sexual pleasure. Pfft. As if a relationship is guarantee for mind blowing orgasms (or any orgasms at all for that matter). It is not!

Sure, getting into a relationship means lots of regular sex but as you already know, sex doesn’t mean orgasms.

If it is mind blowing orgasms you are really after, you will have much better luck if you take matters into your own hands. Literally. Heck, even women who are in relationships have to resort to taking matters into their own hands.

I don’t know about you but it sounds like a pretty good deal to me; sexual gratification without the drama and disappointments.

You can support yourself

I like being spoiled by a man just as much as the next girl but sometimes it is just not worth the trouble, especially if you can spoil yourself.

It is 2019, ladies! We are strong, independent women who can pay our own bills. Do away with this mentality of needing a guy to keep you up.

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You can pay your own way. A little hard work has never killed anybody so stop waiting on a man to provide for you when you can get out there and provide for yourself.

Believe me, money is so much more satisfying when it comes from your own pocket. You are strong. You are capable!

I can comfortably take myself out to dinner, buy myself expensive gifts and even take myself on luxury vacations. So why would I want a man and the BS that comes with him to do those things for me when I can comfortably do them for myself?

You have got your BFFs for companionship

Imagine being with your soulmate but without the drama, jealousy, mind games and moody attitudes. That is exactly what your BFFs are!

They offer you the companionship you need without the BS (and the sex but I have covered that above) that comes with a relationship. My BFFs are my life! I value my friendships more than I value my relationships.

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This is why it always astonishes me to hear of women who ditch their friends for their boyfriends.

As I have always said, boys come and go. Friends are for life. So, forget about finding a man. Get yourself a ride or die BFF

 @roxannekenya


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