We’ve been married for the past six years. Hubby is okay – provides, is responsible and has never beaten me or looked at the house help in a manner likely to suggest.
Problem is recently, each time we make love, I find myself thinking about my ex who, unlike my hubby, has a hairy chest. Do you think I’m cheating on my husband?
I honestly have no idea, but if your pastor insists you are, that cheating won’t get you killed – unless you scream Mr Hairy Chest’s name when you and hubby are attempting to manufacture a new voter. I don’t even think you should feel guilty.
At least you fantasise about someone you had a relationship with. You would be offended to death if a mganga leaked the list of people your husband thinks about when the two of you are intimate and he is desperate to ensure the ‘cow does not refuse.’
That list could include the mboch who broke his virginity, some sweaty collection from the disco who blacked out in his bed 10 years ago, that slutty barmaid whose left buttock is bigger than the right one... those are the women your hubby probably thinks about when the two of you are getting down and dirty!